Before age 30, a person is said to be good, there are conditions to develop ourselves to be more educated, and books, diplomas. The school now very sensitive man, their hearts are very sensitive. And they can learn well only through books, and from what others say. But after age 30, people have almost fully developed his own personality. Therefore, learning to develop ourselves as a traditional ago in the family, and school, self-understanding and learning from books, no longer works. To progress and mature, we need to have the experience from reality. We need to go many places, and felt with my own heart. Ask yourself expanded awareness, or thinking with their own heads. Only by doing so, can our intellect is expanding, and our wisdom emerging.
Yet, far away places when you were too young is not good. Because then your personality weakness, cognitive and your thinking is limited. How about going out, experience from social reality, is something you have to accept the look of sympathy and unfavorably of others. You may encounter many difficulties and dangers as a place where you come from ... So to overcome all these things are good, requiring you to be an adult. Otherwise you will not wise enough, and good evil to overcome that obstacle. So you will be hurt, distorted personality and his soul. This is very bad.
When traveling, that's when we decided to leave everything on the back side. We need to completely escape everyday life in their implementation. Let yourself have a mind for the new, to become a new man, step up to a new world, let your heart feel new things, have new perceptions, to do background basis for new thinking. So our people will change, so our lives will change. The effect of a great trip. So we try to go places, to learn many things by the perception and thinking of yourself. Try to cultivate myself well, so we will be stronger, stalked out of this world. We can dispose of all the world around, but please do not leave me now his personal ego. Do not ever let go renounce ourselves for anything. Please do not let yourself drift downstream. Always live in a state initiative. Be self-employment and life thinking of yourself. Just do not throw away myself, always keeps his ego. We're going to have the whole world in the palm. When we sacrifice ourselves for others. It's a loss, grief, and will be a loss forever. The sacrifice is the starting point for all the failures and losses later. Because when we endure suffering, when we accept the loss of self. We will never make others happy, fun is. A grieving heart will only come darkening around the world alone. And a heart full of love, a soul full of happiness will spread love and joy to the world around them. Please make yourself become happy, then we can help other people happy. Let helping yourself become successful in life, then we have enough experience and knowledge to help others succeed. One of the greatest ways to improve their own capacity, as you've entered adulthood. It was let go many places, feel reality with the heart and your own perception. Then your mind will change, your people are forced to mature and stronger, to adapt to new living conditions. Therefore, you will mature and wiser in life!
Author: Pham Thi Hoi
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