One can not be always good with other people, when they are not good with myself. One person can not take care, love, and help other people, when they do not do these things for themselves. If they are trying to do these things to other people, then it is only a false and self-repression own hearts, and they are sacrificing themselves. But in this life of hypocrisy, the people born with contempt and self-repression is itself self-harm was himself, sacrifice is the most stupid thing in the world, sacrifice always synonymous with losses, and people life nobody truly appreciate the sacrifices of others for themselves at all. So, all of this is a source of unhappiness in social relationships.
Although we have truly devoted sacrifices for your beloved, then after the dedication, dedicating all that was precious to him. We left something? Our image and the image of how that person in society? Surely he will better our lot. So, the people that will come with another good, more innovative we are also a natural thing. That fake treatment we still have the lifestyle of dedication, sacrifice for the one you love, then we would live like that for how long? Since the last post, we are only human. And because we are one people, so instinctively, we will work for the benefit. When we suppress and destroy itself this instinct of self, we are self-metamorphosis myself. But the metamorphosis despite good trend or a bad trend. They are very harmful to the health of the person. That is the main cause of a lot of psychological disorders, and serious illness for that person.
So to build a sustainable relationship is itself we must feel happy, happy with that relationship. All the emotional excesses are not good. Only when we feel happy, then we are happy to spread to the world around it. Whatever the reason, despite the desire of human beings to how large. Although we live in a culture like. Then man is still only human and only. So, if not satisfy the basic needs of a human being as: food, clothing, sleep, rest, shown, are respected ... then that relationship will also vanish. And do not build lasting relationships by fulfilling that relationship.
Author: Pham Thi Hoi
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