Monday, September 21, 2015

How confess to succeed

      For the West, to the boyfriend, girlfriend, love, dating, courtship, lost love is the very normal. Because their people very open about the relationship between men and women. This is true. Because sex affair is the latest caem of human love. But in Asian countries such as Vietnam, are deeply influenced by Confucianism. Therefore, men and women love story which is seen as a delicate matter, private, and secret. However, due to Vietnam's education now studying exit west. Thus recently, many young people, especially university students have chosen a monumental confessed before the crowds.

        However, in my opinion, selecting confession was a mistake. Because the pressure of the crowd often makes people confessed shyly. They can be stunned and concerned with the prying eyes of the crowd, and then choose the plan that refused to flee. But he himself confessed, it hence being ... lost face before the crowd. If predestined to go forward with that person, it's a good thing. And if that is the end completely from the relationship. Then people go to confess to difficulty when passing it, and when coming to a new person. But sometimes it is easy to confuse love and friendship. Moreover it is difficult to guess the feelings of people are confessing their love, or just see myself as a friend. We should only do this when we proposed to his lover. Since then, both have been lovers. Accept the proposal is that they will have a wedding before a lot of relatives and friends. Are they completely open relationship, moved to live together, and have children. Just confess that to make such monumental, especially in Asian countries, the likelihood of success is very low. Ideally you should still choose a sincere confession, delicate and romantic. Doing so, the ability to be accepted will be much higher. As a romance, especially in the beginning, sometimes it's very fragile, fragile. Way too bold confession of a man who sometimes made with fear, and retreat into defense.
        Loving is not guilty. The falls in love with someone which is not a bad job. Therefore, let us boldly expressed his sincere love for your beloved. But we need to show how to achieve happiness for both of them. Despite expressing that sentiment success or failure.
                                                                                          Author: Pham Thi Hoi

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