Living in the world, whether in any field, was incorrect, they must fix. Never accept or tolerate their own mistakes. Which do you like that, mistakes that will increasingly destroy your life worse. Happiness never go parallel with the acceptance or endurance. Happiness is the satisfaction of having achieved the dream, or the desire from deep inside.
There are many people when sent, they tried to correct his mistakes. When they do not correct themselves to get their mistakes. Then others will modify their help. It was a lucky thing for them. So they increasingly improve. But also people are inherently wrong, but people in society to fix their man. It may be those who have the wrong perception, because the right thing is the wrong idea. Or maybe people have evil heart or an aversion to them. If we encounter this case, it should be very cautious, sober. Do not anger that turns into false self is correct. Neither as off guard but people listened, finally makes himself wrong.
In our society there are always so many different types of people. The benefit with this group, sometimes it is the damage to the other group. The same thing happened, but there are people who think like that are true, some people thought it was wrong. Everyone has an opinion, personal and ideological stance. The more people there are differences in education, culture, occupation, social class even had other thoughts apart. Therefore, people do like, we just live like that confidence. This person does not like me, do not accept there are many others like me, what I have to morph itself for them? If we can morph themselves to please him, whether we will satisfy them for how long? We have happy? Although we initially felt joy, but joy will last how long? Will there be a month or not? Or just a few days?
Given wrong then we should definitely fix. If we are not self-realized his mistake, when someone pointed out, we realized his mistake, the more we have certain fixed. We repair itself is not listening to the opinions of others. But by the opinions of others, we have realized his mistake and make repairs. Live must have autonomy. When you lose self-control with myself, then others will do all you. Usually they will distort your life according to them. Then you have regrets and no longer keep up.
Author: Pham Thi Hoi
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