Women and money

At one time, the woman is the woman standard dedicated to the chamber, the kitchen. Making money and teach children is the work of man. The woman is then seen as a creature without a brain. The question of the male partner's mouth is: The woman then said something? Women could do something? Woman stomach ... narrow capital. Condition and status of women in society in the lowest media. Women and children are regarded as sub-human classes. Thus in the family, the daughter married before necessarily listen and follow his father or brother. When married, then listen and follow necessarily husband or son. The woman gave birth to a son who is also considered a precious display. Fame family. But still the woman if her daughter was born ten people still have no identity as something to them opening the husband at all. Their relationship with a husband or older desert fragile and weak.


Nguyen Du - Great poet laments nation ever uttered:
                                      Trade instead bondswoman
                                Word that silver is also the common destiny

          So the question is in how the woman neglected so much. In my opinion, the male-supremacy ideology became a strict law masonry of thousands of years of feudal due to many objective reasons and subjective.
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          First: Starting from a backward agricultural society. Activity of human livelihood is mainly based on physical strength. War between the villages together. Among countries together constantly. Requires a great man and strong shock carrying the hard work and danger. So the position and role of man in the family is enhanced and glorified.
          On one hand, due to customary inheritance patrimony only divide men. So women have weak legs soft hands not generate much employment performance in the field. Again there is little external assets both personal belongings when married. Families that much into it more for her daughter shopping at jewelry called dowry. Man going to get married have to spend large sums of money called the hanging. This amount is usually enough to buy a pretty big garden.
Therefore folk have a saying:
                               Three men regardless varies, any indigent female quartet.
 Being mean: A family with three sons, when they have to worry about getting married for all three fields garden intermarried families can not be wealthy. And a family with four daughters, when they get married off for about four gardens or fields, the poor can not.
          Also because heavy wedding customs this woman condition is even small in the eyes of her husband. The woman thought to be honored, respected her as a wife married to lose some money. But when her husband walks in the door, the woman immediately lost their names. People would call her under the husband's name, her husband's family belongs. There are tasks to take care, take care and have children for the husband's family. The woman is in fact being sold by her family to a bargain price. Because the woman was sold at a bargain price, so guys go buy with a very high price in the hearts and resentful and frustrated. And all the ones that they are little better off daughters. Or the word "daughters"! Costly also the word "strawberry element". Both beard sprouted from the body part, can cut or scrape away such comfortable body unharmed with the owner. It's no use nothing but decorative effect. And the beard after shaving away a goat will only come, it was dirty smelly fishy landfill.
          Woman unlucky enough to jettison ungrateful husband immediately tied to many of the label is: indecency, losing streak ....
Folklore has tacitly draw a sentence:
                             Stamping fees cork river is not broken
Husband abandoned girls also turn it the other streak.
"Strawberry" in "tumultuous" shall mean body size, floating and sinking of adversity and danger. That was the scene of the bride living in feudal. The husband's mother, father, wife, husband ... children wear jewelry bride at Tickle and considered as the servants in the house. Maternal husband emptying oppression in decades as a bride on her head the new daughter-foot wet knives husband walks in the door.
                             Teach children about early
                             Up from joining his wife on
          Mothers should not shy husband, her daughter in law what respect for all. She arose in psychology: "lose money buying her tray crashing to perforation". If the bride has been hurt, too, she only frustrations Aaron Green stated: "To say that the mother does not speak"?!
          So mothers husband, sister, husband very sorrowful. She saw a stranger hate where either they come in openly displayed in her home. Her parents had to bring many assets have long gathered to buy her back. Would that money may belong to her when she got married. So she sought torturing and harassing. Even seeking to pursue both her sister reluctantly out of her house. So folk draw and concludes:
                                Wu is not the enemy side by side aunt husband!

          This time the woman huddled underground kitchen corner to pass the time. Only painstakingly and stepped obediently do all the work in the husband to not reviled. To pass getting on. Tasty morsel to concessions husband, mother, husband, and then to children. To mouth bride in an agricultural society that only hunger coffee musty moldy rice pieces only.
          Second, women are born creator weak capital than men. That almost every living thing on earth feminine creatures weaker males. Without variation is normal, the brain is always smaller woman man brain. So the man kept leader position both countries, the village and the family. Their status as the head position, an employer. The woman just follow, obey.
So in social, talent recruitment. They implicitly remove the first woman. Only newly invested son for education, civil service examination. The political, cultural and man's increasing, so are the political, cultural and women's lower much.
          The man's thoughts seeped into people from when they were kids. Son shall be free to do what he likes. And daughter must do this, do that. Women must learn to avoid the married household. Parents also expect and hope on the son. The girl was taken lightly. Since then no longer married to their children anymore. They did not ask for help any more.
Folk about this sentence:
                                      Daughter is the one
                             New real father mother daughters buy for!

          That woman is not weak education level, status and money in ancient society. And in this society, why?
          The woman of today is socially created equal conditions for education, they earn a reputation election and social status. They were able to do the President, the President, ministers .... They have money, status, and knowledge. But they are the weaker sex. But their position is not equal to men, but their position in the family and society is increasingly improved.
          But the man's ideas were rooted in entrenched people of Asian countries. Evidence that the sex selection before birth. Leads to consequences in countries China, Korea, Vietnam ... happened the gender imbalance. Percentage of men than women born. Confucius taught, something too extreme and will decline. When key people son to the removal of the fetus is a girl, the boys will be redundant. Daughter of precious and rare lack of will. But now the situation has generated negative vices heartbreaking is trafficking in women. But in the long run it will make nudge improving the status of women in society.
          On the one hand, modern society where working machinery instead of human labor. Intellectual economy ensuring equal members of society. When human labor by controlling only the power machinery and labor of men and women are equal. And they make money equal.
          Modern society, there are many favorable conditions for women to develop it. The basic thing here is that only women themselves have to rise up efforts. Dominating knowledge, social status and money. They also need to know that soft yet supple and perseverance to choose professions accordingly, easily succeed.
                                                                       Author: Pham Thi Hoi