How is the ideal man

Facing the crossroads of life. Many young women wonder: What is the ideal man. And many young people have changed their ideal pattern several times.
Some people like to form strong man, confident. Some people like to sample the rich man and success. Some men like to sample the sweet, romantic ... But after all. The only people who make you happy in the world is not any one particular guy that you ideally would have wished. That person very close to you, because that is yourselves. If you do not know yourself to love and cherish yourself, no one can love you both. Something that dedication? Something that sacrifice?

Non sake - his survival instincts that are self-weakening action themselves. Failure is a big possibility is waiting in front.
                                                             
          When we depend joys and sorrows in a person? It is when you are dependent on others. Were acts of others his psychological control. Then you no longer own your home anymore. You become a slave and no longer worthy to be honored. And how much love to go there, you realize how much of such. So you get hurt. So you failed.
          Your happiness by You really hold. Created yourself. If you are a handsome boy, handsome and rich in love passionately. It was blessed by you. But a guy like many girls also eyeing. And if there is one day that man does not overcome the temptation. He came with another person. What about you? You feel unhappy overflowing? Hanh your phuac completely shattered? You have nothing else? You can not love anyone again? ... It's not like where you are, sir! That's just the feeling. Just feeling it. You still have the legs, arms, face, nose ... your body is up to you. You're still eating, still live and breathe every day. Man you still there, passions, interests and your goals are still there. First you have lost just one in love with someone. A sacred part of the many spiritual yours. You just lost a companion in life ahead. You still friends only. If you do not become dependent and lose yourself to the person. The end will be very gentle with you.
          Your life is created not only to just love couple. Which is made up of many things: survival instinct, maternal, paternal, brothers, friends, cousins ​​... You still have the fame, career, desires and how longing for his life .
          Why one child lives very cheerful and happy when they do not have love? Because they are very balanced and autonomy. They know themselves looking for love in his life. Happy because you make yourself happy is sustainable food. It is the root of happiness spawned numerous other happy things.

          Be loving and caring for oneself before others do it for you. God will help anyone save themselves. Life really does not exist on the right-hand side - wrong, good - bad! But it only exists: the success - failure. Love and not love only.

                                                                             Author: Pham Thi Hoi