The family is the cell of society. A good society, when there are good families. A family is considered good, while all members of the family meet their personal needs, everyone is happy. Everybody behave properly with the functions, duties, and his duty. Everyone in the family loves, and help each other progress in life. Usually to keep the peace sticky, parents often act as king in a family. In the family also needs to develop rules of conduct. It is like in a country must have the law. When parents can not maintain their own dignity. Then the honor of children with their parents will not.
The leader of a family, similar to the leaders of an agency or organization. They all respected his seriousness. If the leader does not know how to use rules and fairness to regulate the behavior of people. Then surely there will be disturbances occur. When considering the fairness, we also need to make clear fairness, equality is not leveling with each other. The fair is who are to fulfill their capabilities. The man who will take on the work that needs to build strength. And women can do the job quietly, simpler. The appropriate staffing is a basic element to create happiness in the family, as well as the success of the agency or organization.
If said family is a cell of society. Then money and cell protoplasm that. A family can not exist or happy without money. Therefore, work together to plan for the money, spending and saving is very important. Many families in conflict on how to use the money in the family, in the end unsatisfying couple spending money together, and loving feelings thus reduced, sometimes happy family also shattered. In my opinion, the financial management of the family, we just applied a similar way to spend the money of the richest people of Babylon. This is the income of both spouses, we divided into 5 parts. 1 part, to spend for daily living expenses. 1 part to save and invest in productive activities and business in order to increase family income. 1 room savings of sickness and misadventure. 1 section to help the difficult ones, and the cost of gifts to friends and relatives marriage, birthday, birth ... 1 part, split evenly between the spouses to spend what they spend, no one is allow management or ask others. If you do that, both spouses are comfortable and confident when going out socially. Your family economy will stabilize and go up. Sentiment of the couple so that more commitment and camaraderie.
Family is something precious in every human life. Let's build ourselves a happy family. Give your children a best development space. Make your family, really become a nest of love for all family members.
Author: Pham Thi Hoi
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