Biologically, humans are mammals species promiscuity. Therefore, in many countries and different cultures in the world, with the type of marriage regime a husband and wife. Thus, the rich man and many power took on a lot of wives. Some have up to 60 wives. And the king in feudal China in 3000 the wife of goods, is still considered normal.
However, marriage a wife, a husband is still seen as the fruits of civilization, modern. In fact, only the faithful couples who live together for life are true happiness in marriage. People living with unfaithful spouses are noble man, respected by society. In the country under the regime of marriage a wife, a husband. The State shall enact laws, and the sanctions to protect it. Because human nature is still infidelity. So the law should ban to adjust the mental instability, unstable love affair should have. Cause suffering to spouses and children. And with good people, well-educated, have good intelligence and bravery. They will never commit adultery, even if their hearts desire. They deserve the love, and the respect of everyone in society.
In terms of origin, the lust of adultery is a very ordinary desire, and of human nature. So those who commit adultery, or having more than one wife is not really a bad person too. Just because they are part of human children in the larger part of them only. They do not educate your instincts are attuned to social culture. So they were socially condemned, despised. In terms of love, they have severely hurt his mate. There are many families were broken happy because infidelity of his wife, or husband. The biggest burden of the consequences when the couple divorced as their common children. Because after divorce, both parents most of them are trying to build a new home, they have a new baby. They try to retain the new happiness. Therefore, the child of a previous marriage has become a heavy burden on their shoulders. Even as a new obstacle to their happiness. They've just lost their families, the parents are away, we lose a lot of love from both parents. And we also lose the right to inherit a lot of assets that lifelong their parents make. So, in my opinion, if there is an affair of both husband and wife, we should ignore and forgive. All is just for our own happiness in the future, because protecting our great love, and for families, children ...
Author: Pham Thi Hoi
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