Let's think and act the way you like.

    Every human being is a separate individual, no two people are alike. Although we are both born and raised in a family. Along with a living and learning environment similar. But the soul and our personalities are different. Therefore, with the same work, the same way. But there are people who are successful, others fail. So we do not learn from anybody's thinking, do not imitate the way of others. Be thinking in his own head. Be creative ways of reaching out to their own success. Everything we know tells us that we learn in life, just reflect on our mind in the form of awareness. But to succeed, we have to think, and act. From awareness to action go a far way. Because the new thinking is cognitive transformation process into useful actions for themselves. This process is absolutely not burn phase. If not we will harm ourselves. If say awareness is the raw material, the thinking is the production and processing of raw materials which act as the final product. If only from the awareness that turns into action immediately, then it does not increase the value. So it does not provide a benefit to all.

        Each has a private capacity and ability. So wise thinking to know how to act to uphold their own strengths, weaknesses limit yourself. The end result is to achieve the goal that we want. A frail woman should not need too much work one muscle strength, and wisdom. Doing so much, they may be deranged, health cachexia. To be successful in society. They should choose for themselves the light work, endurance, perseverance. Because the strength of the woman shown in the endurance, perseverance. They like the gentle, peaceful, and serene. As for the man, a job like that would restrict their ability. Because strength in men's jobs bring dynamism, competitiveness and high resisters. They like pressure at work, and do great work, whether it is a risk. So if the man uses a woman's way to reach the success, or the women that use the way of man to attain success. Then all the men and women will have the risk of failure is very high. Because they've wasted a lot of energy belong to their instincts, on the road to success. Everyone in society will look at them with disdain eyes. Sometimes, they also like the farce in the eyes of other people, because the expression not in his right in their gender. That would be their big mistake. So a sincere advice for you: let's think and act the way you like.
                                                                                       Author: Pham Thi Hoi