Family as a country should have provisions and certain rules. To everyone in the family to have a common standard for their behavior. So every member of the family not outrageous behavior, to the extent of hurting each other's feelings.
But managing a difficult family. Since the family is the place of rest, recreation and leisure, recreating the labor of all members of the family. In but his daily life, much as people do all of the family lose their own dignity. Furthermore, in an environment which is very close family. These feelings, emotions strongly governed the behavior of each person. Therefore, they will have difficulty adjusting other acts of the members of the family. So they certainly have managed by masonry family law. If masonry in family law too strict. Then sentiment among members of the family would be hurt. But if masonry family law too lax, even as every one wants how such freedom. The family will not last long. Rather, it's not a family. When members do not respect, no love, no help, and do not adhere to a general rule. , The relationship between family members is not sustainable. People will not respect each other. Ordering the members of a family hence the confusion. The relationship between the members of the family may therefore born chaos. Everyone in the family scramble together everything, right and wrong, not left them confused. Finally the members of the family so that hurt.
So, with family, rather than strict rules without rules, hierarchy, order anything. Only do that, everything went according to a fixed rotation. Affection among family members are not too intimate, but stable. In the family always had the distinction between parents, grandparents, siblings, children, grandchildren ... obviously. Everyone should follow a code of conduct and ethical standards in accordance with their correct location. So nice family become sustainable. Affection among family members so that is sticking, intimate. Despite knowing that the main principle of family behavior is to use love. But emotional regulation also requires wisdom, masonry law. To everything the default operating under a default trajectory lasting and nice. In doing so, we will never regret. The family is the cell of society. Families that peace and happiness, the society so that wealth and development.
Author: Pham Thi Hoi
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