Friday, October 9, 2015

To have true happiness in marriage

       Couples who live together almost all of my life. They share the children, assets, family ... But the very process that mounts that much as people feel lost freedom. People felt they had lost their ego in marriage. Therefore, many people who keep themselves separate from their sky-law, wife. Especially the husband had always loved the novelty, and the economic conditions. They can have quick affair outside marriage seems its very sustainability. Thus the psychologist once said: the divorce always sleep together every night with the couple.

        However, spouses after marriage are like together boarded a train going in the ocean. Their marriage is like a ship that. Their children like sailors on that ship. The husband and wife will have to work together to steer the ship, take it to the shore of happiness. When their marriages fall apart. Then both husband and wife are damaged many pictures, wealth, and happiness. And their children did not know where to go. We new the biggest victims of such marriages. Though later, the wife and husband are going to find yourself new ones. They will marry new people, and have a new family. But their marriage will never have a happy consummation anymore.
      Their dissatisfaction was the first human in their own. Memories of old mate, will never be able to fade in their hearts. The nostalgia for the past, and even the same situation occurs in the family. This makes them always be nostalgic about the old days. Then, in their comparison between old and new. These things are and not from old, new people out. These memories are beautiful, and sparkling. Psychology fish took the big fish. So they rammed the depressed with new marriages. So the marriage of their second little find true happiness.
       The second is the object of their second marriage, is almost certainly not complacent as beautiful aesthetic object first marriage. That may be an older girl but unmarried. Either a person has through a divorce ... their new family is a mess. Conflicts between stepson, stepson, their common children who erupted. The new old feelings interwoven. The interference of the old, new in their marriage. All turned their lives turned into a pot, always burning hot. Therefore, they will never get a full happy life at all. A sincere advice for young people is entering a marriage, or living in a marriage is: marriage is a constant. Please choose a mate for thoroughly. Already married before, then try to understand each other, tolerance, forgiveness, and love one another. For both shared happiness. Children so well was asked for and have a good future.
                                                                                              Author: Pham Thi Hoi

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