Saturday, October 31, 2015

Be smart assertive in difficult situations

      Everyone knows that to become a talented, good personality. We must have a long-term process of cultivating. To have a talent, one must offs so much sweat and tears. To become successful, sometimes one must sacrifice many valuable things to themselves. Yet when we sit in high positions in agencies and organizations already. They were approaching the highest throne and then, so that the joy, happiness has not. Because of their direct superiors are not good. The two opposites together in perception and thought. Even his superior who also deliberately wanted to hurt him. The more you live in such an environment, the more vulnerable he and intellectual personality of itself. An environment that he does not carry it, nor was shining. The good things are the vulnerable. It is best to hide the person himself opposite his superiors to go. If not, then that person to retreat from that position to protect the safety of yourself.

      Living in the world, sometimes we also encounter similar situations. The wise, knowing look of then protect yourself. Sometimes also lucky to find better opportunities for themselves. The foolish for taking a little benefit, some reputation that is increasingly distant marsh. Finally when awakened, it is impossible to escape. If escape is out, everything has become too late. Both the soul and talent of people that have been hurt very heavy. For example, a girl as soon as he received word love with a guy, she was awakened and realized she did not love that guy. But she has not definitively abandoned immediately. She further descent into that relationship. Finally the boy was also abandoned girl, with no reason for her honest guy. Because of his lack of assertiveness, she has wasted effort and his youth, to nurture a love unfortunate. Or something sons do not love a girl anymore. He decided to break up. Yet girls still trying to hook him. Finally, why? She was just trying to hurt myself only. The will of man is always very strong. They will not give up goals, their desire for a few tears of girls where. When a guy split decision, usually they have to think very carefully. Therefore, as a girl, then you try to awake and keeps his self-esteem. Try to heal the wounds in our hearts, instead of trying to hold on to him.
       In love, work, and life, sometimes we fall into difficult situations. Be very intelligent, and assertive. Be aware of the difficult situation we can solve, the problems we had to collaborate, and the difficulty we had to withdraw immediately, to protect the safety of yourself.
                                                                                     Author: Pham Thi Hoi

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