Adjusting your own desires to become noble in society

      The life of human psychology is extremely complex. Many human desires are not right. Whether that society always respects the freedom of the individual. But conversely, the law also stipulates the rules for the protection of human rights. A personal desires, which violate rights granted by law protected interests of other individuals. Voila is a false desire. To live well, then certainly we need to fix, and completely destroy such desires.

       Or desires while not violating the law. But to violate the person, or hurts ourselves. For example amorous habits and alcohol beautiful woman in the man. Dissipated fad benefited from others, but do not try to put myself through feed themselves in these women. There are false desires. But the law will not adjust his behavior ours. But if he desires, fall into that passion. It is very harmful to the dignity and our image in society.
        A wise man always ignore negative desires that in the bud. They are educated and become who live honest, upright, fair, sincere, faithful, eager not drink, live independently, and always ahead in life ... A person like that is very good. The society that will be loved and respected. What they will enjoy success, thanks to the many helpers. While people do not know ignore the trivial desires like good wine, beautiful women, playful, lazy employees ... would be both socially despised. Photos he became very ugly in society. The work that would be difficult, because there is no backing and support of others.
        The better our desires as useful crops. Evil desires of us as weeds, pests harmful to crops. If they do not inhibit the growth, or totally destroyed. The plant can not grow well. Sometimes it also died. People do not know restraint, eliminating evil desires, cultivate good desires, then do something as difficult and dangerous. That action often found in people who are lowly in society. But someone always said control yourself, adjust, remove completely evil desires out of mind and its thoughts, cultivate good desires. Turning good desires into good deeds in life. Then do something they would enjoy success. This is expressed in the well-educated man, with a noble personality, and they are noble people in society.
                                                                                         Author: Pham Thi Hoi