Friday, September 25, 2015

To become a wise man in the relationship

      Normally, especially when we had success and happiness in society. There will be a lot of good people with us, and in fact they also loved us so. Therefore, we often will choose for themselves the good relations in society. But when we fail. There will be a lot of relatives, friends, and colleagues turned against us is why?

       Actually what he's not all bad people. It is true that there are those who establish a close relationship with us to take advantage of us. When we fail. They no longer hope to take advantage of what is ours. So they immediately turned back and end all relations with us. And most of those who turn their backs on us as normal people. They even are good people. Only their affection for us is not very deep. Our relationship with them is not close. Sometimes it's just a social relationship normal. And a better, more successful and have many virtues. Then the relationships in their wider society. The more people in society and respect for their beloved. So, maybe we are just a very small relationship of them in society only. Is there any reason that we force them to help us, when we have problems, failure in life?
      A wise man in life is overlooking shallow depth extent of a relationship. Since it launched the action, decent jobs, so as not to become a man in the eye ungainly others. And as always awake to realize shallow depth extent of a relationship. They always know the emotional investment, and establish closer ties with the basic nature as parents, relatives, spouses, good people ... These people will never abandon us in trouble , difficult. And they are also smart enough to realize, rather they have a close friend. But that is who between them have the trust, kindness and help each other progress. More than 100 friends they have both common courtesy. To the difficulty, danger. They hurried away. Even with those inhuman, bad even pay for our ice back some more, making us even more pain was pain, have been hurt even more vulnerable.
                                                                                              Author: Pham Thi Hoi

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