Saturday, May 23, 2015

The struggle of the mother

In life without any emotion and greater spiritual love of the mother for the child. Hey, the hard outer pregnant nine months and ten days. The mother suffered much hardship and inconvenience due to wear when the bundle also weigh 12kg angel in the abdomen. Mother may be blood in the legs numb down accordingly. Being seasoned skin in the abdomen affect aesthetics. Frequent constipation and can cause hemorrhoids, because too worried about the future of the unborn child. How much strength the young son mother had commanded all the baby through the umbilical cord. Then the mother becomes pale and pallid must go. Also, the mother also suffered a lot of endocrine disorders, psychological ... very dangerous to life and adversely affect the self-image, health, and welfare of the family. Folk have a saying: There is such pregnancies grave door.

                  During childbirth, the mother also suffered excruciating pain came. Folk suddenly not have the wallet: as labor pains! The mother was lucky not dissect a very bad influence on the health and aesthetics are also private parts mutilated. Who have children without being sewn? Even mothers also suffer severe postnatal sequelae, but only silently endure dare not dare opine against anyone. The loss of a large amount of nutrients and blood during the birth process very negatively affect the mother's wisdom. A woman from birth inherently weak and inferior man already. This is even worse.
                  When the baby is born, the mother entered a difficult phase new strenuous. Apart bucket car body, infirmity. Mothers day without sleep mode for breastfeeding. Ru child sleep. May not even sleep peacefully led away face haggard mother, whispered crazy eyes. Son, now sick, sore tomorrow. When Sai, the lights ... making mothers how lines lose sleep night.
                  The month in child care, despite the mother being stay and enjoy social insurance benefits under labor laws. Then after the break, there are plenty of companies where people work for mother mother quit. Since they are the business units. They can not vacant positions accounting, statistics ... in 6 months. Children were small, milk money, money lines, cotton money, money grab diapers come from? Back now to the hospital, to the hospital again tomorrow! The mother struggled to run the urge to run away to find work. But this time due to health, physical and mental are not good mothers. Finding a new job doubly difficult.
                  Until the child goes to kindergarten. The mother closed the hardships lo rice money contributed for children. The children now are not like the old days education. Raising a child entering kindergarten level cost of raising a college student.
                  Hard surface hundred child, but the mother never dared complain taken half a lifetime. Since ngẫm out, his mother once his farming also struggled as much. Having a baby can understand parents' laps. Now they poignant love the father or mother, they can not take care of them any longer fulfilled. Their world is just because they were born child. In true life: tears flowing down.
                  Births hard, so hard feeding mother's love for big kids and deepest. Children are copies, the body part most loving mother outside. Banana fish amorously for children. Despite difficult life circumstances how harsh the mother never discarded his son. They always live dying children. Please observe the couple divorced but watch. Most of the men after dropping his wife giving up her child. They absorbed a new search of happiness not visited or what the child support at all. In the children when sick or weak when suffering almost the only mother only.

                    Try to love and cherish with his mother more. Treat your mother with deep gratitude. Try tolerance for his mother more. Because the old mother, illness dragged to, think backward, more distortions. Sometimes makes us very tired and sometimes very lose face with the people. Try to remember that the biggest benefactors of our life. And because mother did for me love most in this life. We are part of the body outside the mother. The love of a mother for her child is always: UNCONDITIONAL!

                                                                 Author: Pham Thi Hoi

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