In everyday life, everyone can make mistakes, anyone can mistake. But the difference is who knows overcome setbacks, mistakes to do from the beginning. Those who know learn and draw lessons from the failures. For then they will never make a mistake like. Their road to success will be short a lot. Sometimes, in order to succeed we need to learn from those who went before. Old men, after how many years traveled with life usually have more experience than you.
Normally, when the old people tend to look back on your life. Or contemplate what is right and wrong in society. Or write something to leave to your children later. If a person lives after looking back over that feeling fulfilled because all good. It truly is an ultimate happiness of man. But if I look back over a lifetime. I just saw the poignant regret. Then it is really a pity. Pitiful than he was old, had no chance to do it again.
So, on every journey we go through. Let's look back at the journey of his life. Drawing on what is and is not. What needs to overcome, what to try. At least one year, please do so once. So we can fix their mistakes before it is too late.
We also need tolerance attitude to its past as well as of others. Do not destroy or conceal excesses of his own past. Whether it is the worst thing? Yes. Because anyway there is also one of yesterday. We just have to accept it 100%. If something is unacceptable, if there is nothing to make us ashamed. Change in today, and never make mistakes like yesterday. There is a saying: "Never shoot a pistol into your past, because to do so it will step back from the future." It is clear that our past is something to cherish, learn, learn from experience and love. I absolutely can not destroy it. Whatever our past good or bad have nowhere. It is still the root of today. Such a tree can grow green and strong if it is self-destroyed its original owner. We often use the word start from scratch! That should be understood to be started right from the beginning on the basis of inheriting the good things of yesterday, absorb the lessons learned from previous mistakes, to have a nice decent tomorrow. Buddhism has a very interesting question: "Sea boundless suffering, turning the shore". Whether a person is wrong, where fallen to more reasonable. Just dare brave person disposed to make mistakes again. He or she still deserves our respect, many others still worth learning. In life than other people in the field of rehabilitation only. But disaster, false, shallow traps everywhere. Anyone can make. Those who know the right time to stop, said corrective, willing to learn, know hone ourselves through thorny challenge. That person will be the winner in the race of life.
Author: Pham Thi Hoi
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