Culture of pure Vietnamese marriage

 Recently we witnessed a campaign to revive foreign culture on my soil Vietnam, the Ministry of Culture and Communication. The first is the elimination of all the pictures, mascot alien sourced from public buildings, temples and shrines. By now, the traditional Vietnamese culture to the throne. By now, we should recognize the true value of the cultural traditions of their people.



              Vietnam history we experienced more than four thousand years of building and defending the country. From the first primitive state as Van Lang, to this day is the Republic Socialist of Vietnam. Our people have accumulated a lot of culture and distinctive features. But culture has different regions. Between the northern plains and the northern highland clearly differ textiles. Between cultures north and south is different. Explaining this difference, there are many causes. Due to typical living habits of each region to harmonize with harsh natural conditions. Rocky mountain ranges, the towering, craggy. South region, just a fertile delta. Wind region, Laos and even white sand as the central region. The vast river areas like the Mekong Delta. Differences and exotic culture of thought much longer due to the colonial policy of Northern feudal, and the policy of "divide and rule" of France in our country. But taken together, we are the people of Vietnam. and culture have their own characteristics.
              Our Vietnamese people very respected freedom in marriage. Net Vietnamese culture is when children say they want to marry someone their parents consent only, and betel leaves to conduct procurement procedures marry. So boys and girls are free to learn, the grace. They met in the traditional festivities on the occasion of the New Year in early spring, in the contest for singing, song teaser, ... rural location. Or in the daily life and daily labor. Then they give birth to the fishing knives smooth, warm and filled with the grace:
Water slapped her, O heaven
Why yellow moonlight pouring ladle go?
Or all of a suitor folk guy, has all sincerity, subtle but still passionate guide:
Yesterday started bailing Home
Forgotten on lotus flower shirt
I get it for you please
Or are they to believe in home
Austria he chipped wrong directions
His wife had not, her mother sew yet
Austria he chipped just long
Or borrow on stitch her yourself?
Then you make your stitch
Helping children is double projection
Kids blanket cover, blanket you wear
Help for two baskets flung pitcher
A fat pig, two amphora toothpick .....
               Vietnam attaches great importance to people voluntarily marriage, from ancient and still have specific sentence, oil pressing, injection molding fat who missed coast? They praised the spousal harmony with the sentence: "Thuan wife upon her husband, also slapped an eastern land". They are also very happy scenes cozy living labor, equality of the villages in fishing knives:
On copper shallow, deep under contract
Husband, bark, buffalo go hammer.
              So what was once our country was feudal domination of the north. They brought their cultural opposition imposed on our people. The question is either born mouth such as where parents put me sitting there? Daughter, it must prohibit the supply? Men are out of work, out story, and women should know the work chamber, kitchen? Its population still living faithful praise iron son, seriously sentimental. So they re-inoculate:
Martha seven years younger talent cards
Rightness girl only one husband?
              All these things contribute to suppress the soul, paralyzing the spirit of our people, especially for women. Created an oriental society stagnant and underdeveloped. Then the western world, with liberal culture, new. Progressive mindset, they bring guns to turn the whole of Asia and Africa into their colonies.
             Now our society has the highest regard for the freedom of love and marriage among the young. But somewhere in a remote rural location, or in the minds of those who still slow progress deviant thoughts. The marriage of the young people are very much dependent on the opinions of parents, relatives sides. This led to many couples really love each other but not with each other to make up the pain in their lifetime. Because no matter what matter, in the heart of every person Vietnam persists freedom loving, faithful desire to live a life with someone you love. Scene couple living in harmony until early silver, hot tooth, still socially valued and considered it a work of mercy. Ngẫm carefully, it is also true aspirations of humanity lives of millions for centuries.

                                                                          Author: Pham Thi Hoi