The history of social development through so many phases. But there are two basic social system is matriarchal and patriarchal. When people live in herds, children born father unknown face. Society therefore follow matriarchy. Since people living in each household separately. The man has always promoted its pivotal role in the family. Society thus far under patriarchy.
Since ancient times, from east to west, the man is still considered important. They owned most of the important areas of the world. In the countries in the East, women are always the small parts, steering the boat under, girls followed him.
For many centuries, power and money mostly concentrated in the hands of men. In the Western countries, which are still considered the convergence of civilizations of mankind. Woman's condition is no better is how. The woman is like a rib of man. In fact, women are the majority in the care of the housework, new men who make money to feed the family.
Therefore, the role of men in family and society is enormous. Since ancient society still attaches great importance to them. As a modern woman. You can own money, housing, academic and work better position boyfriend. But once married, became thanhchong wife then. We also need to lower his ego down a bit if you want a happy marriage. There is a saying: take the dog in the dog, taken under the old chicken is. If you are a lady pearl gold leaf stems, wearing plain white food, but get a poor farmer, the first day off the dark side in the field. Then I could not sit in his house, to his parents, his brothers, his servant from A to Z is. They also must be rolling up our sleeves, but lo housework and farm work.
Conveniently naturally, the husband must always be in position on the wife. If you really do not love respectful man, do not ever take them. If not just buy the misfortune on themselves. Do not ever think I get less people so I can stay at a higher position than her husband, bullying husband. In fact, after married then, the woman is always in a weaker position than men. If a woman marries his inferior, it is only demean yourselves. Love is choosing to be happy. The man who always gives you a feeling of happiness, peace and new sedentary man to marry you.
Author: Pham Thi Hoi
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