Friday, May 22, 2015
Body parts woman
In the old days under feudalism, woman squashed down to the ends of society. In his family, they must do all things baked in house. That is seen as a woman's duty. They were his, father, brother, brother leader. Whether first child, born after his brother, but the status of women remains below the shoulder. His brother will be taking decisions, big and small things in the home, the right to inherit the entire fortune, fields and gardens. The girl did not get anything, they almost did not get the right to love. Parents send targeted, promising to someone, marry off their daughters to it. There are families who climb, though the son was very young but married daughters home. The new up with fishing knives:
Husband outing bubble
Skip to wade stretch dropped lost husband.
My sister let me borrow a bucket song
I slapped the water to scoop up my husband!
In rural villages in Me Linh District, Hanoi. In the age of about seventy backwards. Husband and wife talk over tens of age is considered to be the very ordinary. If as in the city, they took on to have daughters who have served. Then in the countryside, they took on to have daughters who do. Normally daughters labor exploitation in domestic currency husband kidney. Lifetime never have a tidbit to mouth. There is something delicious they must give him her husband, his parents, wife, husband, children, children ... The heavy, the light they have to hand. They have to stay up late, get up early to make baked for many things. They hunched work to error when age was late afternoon, almost all elderly women in rural areas of the northern plains of old, were hunched, go to a cane!
They work hard for my husband's family so much. But they did not get her husband's family treats. Conflicts between mother in law, daughter in law is contradictory lifetimes. Dependable husband's mother superiors treated unfairly wear jewelry with her daughters. But amazingly, the whole society is implicitly acknowledges that. They tortured her daughter-full style. With psychology "takes money to buy the plate, she stabbed the perforation," the daughters did not know how to fall laments tears, sad for the rest of the time as a bride. The full wrath of the heart, do not know where discharged. And until a child bride, bride also about twenty years ago, is now a mother. She discharge any frustrations in his lifetime as a bride to her daughters. The cycle of mother-bride story so alone forever. My aunt's husband and his family, the dull, wear something that deprived her of her love strawberries. Treated as slaves sister. The old tools do not ever say "no enemy side with her grandmother Corn-Law" is like. Yet when parents, grandparents husband illness. Daughter in law had a hand buy medication, care and servant of all supposed, strawberry festival, this truly human religion.
Those children born by the daughters. Mother grew up in the downtrodden, they may very injured mother. But often the mother will not fear, worse still not respected mother. So the woman had lamented, Born was woman's fate had some pain!
The main cause leading to the "hard number" of women in ancient society is due, who is considered "superior" people wear jewelry squashed under. Sometimes they oppress, torture people under irrationally. When no one to speak up for the people below. They swagger, hands on hips, but exclaimed: To say that the mother does not speak!
In a society like that, looked over and saw a disciplined routine. The ethical outline of his father from a thousand generations are maintained. Persons on the people around, who under the people below. But in fact no one is there life liberty and happiness at all. Humans are deprived of many rights, including the right to be loved!
Sadly more, until today. Between the 21st century full of modern civilization. Somewhere in the countryside in rural areas, mountainous areas, still have similar life situation. And how backward habits that really love each other boys and girls were not living together. Want to get rid of that. Each live stronger. As often is true doctrine, to follow. But as long as they do not harm the rights, well-being that the Creator has given to man. A person with these rules too binding, the principles make provision metamorphosis while providing dedicated follow. Then that person just slaves of those things. Every person, no matter who was on or below, also need to know to keep themselves. Living for exemplary, so we have happiness and not to harm other people's happiness.
Author: Pham Thi Hoi
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