Friday, May 22, 2015

How to choose a spouse


 Today's society is very modern and civilized. More and more people tend to interact more. Going to school and doing far more. Universal world trend is imprinted in your young life. You can remote jungle capital to labor study. From Hanoi to Ho Chi Minh City, to Europe, Australia, America and work study. Going along with the cultural exchange between the regions is love arises between young people from the other country apart. Their love is beautiful, passionate and attractive, with the discovery of several novel.

But in the long run, the couple have separated cultures also less happy. For the understanding can not fill out the margin lifestyle, thinking, behavior ... Although there trying to learn and learn, or be taught can not fill all. Moreover, if the affair is a matter of two young, it is the marriage of two families. After marriage will have common children, grandchildren general. If the family does not have the equivalent of culture, education, social class ... would very root of the litigation. It is also one of the reasons that in feudal society, homogamy is considered a top criteria when choosing marriage.
 Beautiful wedding photos
Beautiful wedding photos - photos Internet

                Criteria marry the same village, the same city ... also very important. Speaking on this criteria, the ancient instrument has taught us:
              Get the person into heaven not by taking ... dog between villages!
Or sentence: I ate grass Buffalo co us
                     Despite being amputated but it fragrant grass!
Or fishing knives full of sincere advice, but equally delicate, earnest:
                           We return our bathing pond
                      Despite the muddy pond though still more!
                  Married to the same village, the same area as married living with people with the same cultural background common areas. Land with margin, native is customary. Imperial power bends the village. There are a lot of thinking and living habits seemed quite ridiculous with those in other regions. But it is very normal for the same country. That make up the peculiarities make up the cultural and regional character. There are many different things unspeakable words. On the one hand, the marriage between people of the same region, they both have a deep understanding of each other from the beginning. Very convenient for the common life later.
                  Further, the marriage between the same people will most regions in the countryside. Around remained family, cousins, aunts and uncles. When a baby is very advantageous to both parties care family help.
                 In short, without a surge. Then the best people with similar life to marry. That is the foundation, the basis for a happy life in the future.

                                                                       Author: Pham Thi Hoi

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